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EMDR Therapy Helps Naturally Reprocess Trauma So You Can Live With Increased Peace & Ease

Are you struggling to make sense of and heal from a recent or a long-held trauma—perhaps from childhood—that has and continues to affect your wellbeing and many, if not all, aspects of your life?

Do you feel easily triggered, sometimes abruptly, which causes feelings of confusion, anger, disconnection, panic, hypersensitivity, irritability, restlessness, sadness, hypervigilance, guilt, shame and/or fear?

Are you suffering from anxiety, depression, chronic stress or other mental, emotional, relational or physical challenges that impact your ability to connect with/trust others, focus, complete tasks and engage in relationships, work and the world in the ways that you want to?

Do you often feel that life seems harder for you than for other people, wondering if there is something inherently wrong with you? Perhaps you’ve turned to drugs, alcohol, work, sex or other ways to cope with uncomfortable and often intrusive thoughts and feelings, even if these coping mechanisms are now causing more harm than they are helping. Or, maybe you’ve begun to isolate yourself more and more, unsure of how to communicate what is going on with you, especially if you don’t understand it yourself.

It could be that you’re struggling with self-worth, self-esteem and self-love, constantly battling an active inner critic, self-sabotaging and making choices that you know are not in alignment with your best self, interests and how and who you want to be in the world.

Maybe you’ve tried other forms of therapy, perhaps even trauma therapy, but haven’t succeeded in achieving long-term sustainable results and relief. It might be that you’ve heard of EMDR and its use in helping to resolve trauma and related symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, chronic stress, chronic pain and more and are wondering if it could help you too.

You Are Not Alone

Trauma is ubiquitous in our world—especially today—and with increased trauma occurring for individuals and within families and communities everyday, rates of PTSD, anxiety, depression, substance abuse, addiction, suicide and other mental-emotional-physical challenges are on the rise. The root of these commonly diagnosed conditions is very often traced back to unresolved trauma, often occurring in childhood through adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), and spilling over into and becoming increasingly compounded in adulthood.

If you’re struggling with trauma, please know that you’re not alone. Research indicates that an estimated 70 percent of adults living in the U.S. have experienced at least one traumatic event in in their lives and that 20 percent of those with trauma will develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), with it often manifesting through anxiety, depression, ongoing involvement in toxic relationships, chronic health issues and substance abuse or addiction.

Understanding Trauma And Its Effects On The Automated Nervous System

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Trauma can occur through any circumstance or event that makes us feel threatened, frightened or powerless. It can occur through accidents, assaults and natural disasters, which is often referred to as shock trauma. It can also occur through developmental or childhood trauma, in which one experiences chronic adversity, abuse, neglect and/or a lack of safety while growing up. Trauma can also develop through (or as a result of) other distressing experiences, such as chronic stress, poverty, discrimination, violence, invasive medical procedures and ongoing, misunderstood/mistreated medical conditions, such as premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), which many of the women I work with are learning how to navigate as they reprocess past trauma.

There’s also intergenerational trauma or generational trauma, which researchers are learning more and more about, yet still often goes unrecognized. Intergenerational trauma is a concept developed to explain generational, cyclical challenges that we see in many families with the common symptoms of low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, insomnia, anger and/or self-destructive behaviors.

Trauma used to be viewed as events that “happen to us.” More indepth research over the last couple of decades, however, has discovered that trauma results not from what happens to us, but rather from what happens inside of us as a result of what happened. This explains why one person may walk away from an experience relatively okay while another may struggle significantly.

It’s also important to note that science and ongoing research has shown us that trauma dysregulates the automated nervous system (ANS), which is responsible for all of our automatic functions, such as breathing, our heart beating, digesting, etc. It also automatically manages our stress and survival responses as it’s designed to constantly scan for both danger and safety. When our nervous system is regulated and not activated as it would be with danger present—think fight, flight, freeze—we’re able to move through life in a state of flow, generally feeling safe. However, when trauma occurs and is not processed naturally (which is often the case in the world today), it becomes stuck in the nervous system—literally in the body—and we can become stuck in these survival states.

When in the throes of survival (even years after immediate danger has passed), normal tasks can feel frightening as our internal alarm systems are consistently activated, and people often seek out adaptive strategies (coping mechanisms), such as drugs, alcohol, food, etc, for some semblance of temporary relief.

As trauma is literally stored in the body, it must be released through the body, which is why just talk therapy alone rarely yields long-term results and relief in treating trauma.

Understanding Eye Movement Desensitization And Reprocessing (EMDR)

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EMDR is an extensively researched, empirically-proven approach to treating trauma and distress developed by Dr. Francine Sharpiro in the late 80s after she discovered a connection between eye movements and persistent, upsetting memories. Over the last three decades, and millions of clinical trials, clinical treatment hours and case studies, EMDR is known to be highly effective in treating trauma and trauma-related disorders.

EMDR is designed to naturally resolve unprocessed traumatic memories in the brain and nervous system without the need to talk in detail about the distressing events or circumstances. Rather than focusing on changing thoughts, emotions and behaviors, which is the cornerstone of many other therapeutic approaches, EMDR functions to allow the brain to resume the natural healing process that was never completed.

As described by the EMDR International Association (emdria), a nonprofit with the mission of creating global healing, health and hope:

Our brains have a natural way to recover from traumatic memories and events. This process involves communication between the amygdala (the alarm signal for stressful events), the hippocampus (which assists with learning, including memories about safety and danger), and the prefrontal cortex (which analyzes and controls behavior and emotion). While many times traumatic experiences can be managed and resolved spontaneously, they may not be processed without help.

Stress responses are part of our natural fight, flight, or freeze instincts. When distress from a disturbing event remains, the upsetting images, thoughts, and emotions may create an overwhelming feeling of being back in that moment, or of being “frozen in time.” EMDR therapy helps the brain process these memories, and allows normal healing to resume. The experience is still remembered, but the fight, flight, or freeze response from the original event is resolved.

In addition to treating trauma and PTSD, today EMDR is used treat to a wide variety of issues including:

  • Anxiety, panic attacks, and phobias
  • Chronic Illness and medical issues
  • Depression and bipolar disorders
  • Dissociative disorders
  • Eating disorders
  • Grief and loss
  • Pain
  • Performance anxiety
  • Personality disorders
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and other trauma and stress-related issues
  • Sexual assault
  • Sleep disturbance
  • Substance abuse and addiction
  • Violence and abuse

My Approach To EMDR Therapy

EMDR therapy generally includes an 8-step process that is designed and proven to help people of all kinds recover from trauma and other distressing life experiences. It works to help naturally resolve traumatic memories, which, as wacky as it may sound, can remain in the body from childhood with the body “remembering” and storing things that our cognitive minds do not remember. Decades of research show that for many people EMDR therapy can be completed in fewer sessions and yield better results than other forms of psychotherapy.

I take a compassionate, practical approach to EMDR therapy and treating trauma and related symptoms, meeting each client where they are. While some may be ready to move into EMDR, others require more time for us to develop trust, which is imperative in the treating of trauma, and to feel more resourced and stable before beginning EMDR therapy.
Because trauma gets stuck in the body, it needs to be released through the body. With a dysregulated nervous system, you may feel in a constant state of flight, flight or freeze, perhaps vacillating between all three.
In a safe space, often creating a “container” in which you can put distressing feelings aside—both in sessions and out in the world—we’ll work together to help you become increasingly resourced by learning and practicing how to pause and utilize effective and mindful self-care strategies and techniques to better self-regulate when you feel particularly activated or triggered. Mindfulness, breathwork, movement, journaling and emotional regulation tools can all help. Together, we’ll figure out what techniques work specifically for you, as well as identifying emotions, working to create positive emotional shifts and developing increased awareness of what is going on for, within and around you so you can become more responsive and less reactive, beginning to feel safe in the present moment.
I typically use EMDR therapy when working with clients struggling with trauma, depression, anxiety and symptoms of PMDD, and have found that it can significantly help reduce and even alleviate psychological stress, depression, anxiety, anger, overwhelm, panic and more.
Each session is tailored to meet you where you are each day, in that moment. Without a rigid agenda, we’re able to focus on what you need, whether that be an EMDR session, compassionate support or help processing a current life event, specific feelings and/or a stress trigger.
I provide a confidential, completely nonjudgmental, trusting and safe relationship and environment for you to heal within. I take a strength-based, positive and client-centered approach to all work I do, offering compassionate support, practical guidance and effective modalities and tools—all while helping to track your progress and being there to celebrate your successes.
Rather than continuing to spin in what might feel like chaos, it is possible to slow down, learn to ask for what you need, receive help, communicate with more ease and develop a stronger sense of safety, self-worth, confidence and self-love. It truly is possible to experience more ease, and you deserve to live in peace.

Learn More About EMDR Therapy And How It Could Help You Heal

EMDR therapy has proved to be extremely effective for millions of people, and revisiting the trauma and its aftereffects in a safe, gentle way can provide both immediate and long-term results and relief.

If you’re in the Denver area and are interested in EMDR therapy, I invite you to contact me to schedule an initial call. I’m interested in hearing about what is occurring for you, can answer any questions you have about EMDR, EMDR therapy and my practice, and we can discuss how I can best support you in resolving trauma and in living with more peace and ease.

I also offer online therapy to anyone living in the state of Colorado. If this format better serves your needs and lifestyle, I can meet you virtually from the comfort of your home through a secure and confidential online platform.

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